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Whatever Comes To Mind

Whatever Comes To Mind (268)

By KATHY PAULSEN
Thursday, 11 December 2014 21:09

A multitude of holiday thoughts, plans, and people

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Do you ever have a discombobulated season when you don't know if you are coming or going? Or maybe you are just in the middle - wondering what all is going on?

This is the season that is busy beyond belief, and the weather doesn't always cooperate, and help doesn't always come easy. 

There are so many things that "come to mind.” Here is an example.

God - Church.

Weather - Plans to go to my daughter, Keralyn’s, in the cities to bake cookies with the kids.

Ingredients and supplies for cookie baking.

Time - to go to New Richland after church to attend the benefit for little Isaiah.

Isaiah - with hope and prayers.

Mom - Stop to check to see how she is doing.

Ice Skating - 3:30 family affair.

Stories that need more - Christmas in the Country in Ellendale, Bingo, The Elf, Kids Bingo this week in Geneva.

Santa’s visit.

Christmas shopping not done - still thinking.

How many Christmas cards do I need?

Holiday plans – Who, what, where?

Food – always food. Too much.

People I haven't seen in a while. What a difference a year makes.

Kaden

Whispering Oak

Christmas Trees - Rochester - Ellendale - Moms – home.

Kittens - vultures by my mother’s front door - weather is getting colder.

School programs

Church programs.

Dick Lee, Roger - Joyce

Megan and her fatal accident

Christmas past

Dayna

Dana E.

St. Jude’s

Girls

Letters

Poinsettias

Clarice

Mary - in the nursing home. The look in her eyes when she said, " I am alone and I don't have any one - family - friends and old neighbors have died or moved away."

Carlie - Maddie - Marnie - Admiration

Jade

Game Feed - "Grass Fed"

Jim’s Thanksgiving

Toody - missing her from the family Thanksgiving table.  There was her empty chair.

People - good in everyone - who keeps giving and helping.

Strangers - are never strangers.  Wonder what they are thinking or feeling.  Why?

"Lounging pants" - are they really for outside wearing?

Tattoos - temporary would be better.

Piercings - shouldn't but it does leave negative feelings.

Colored hair.  Fun way to be different that only lasts for awhile.

Braids - How long have some let their hair grow?  Are they ever tempted?

Mallory - At 11 she had cut her hair 4 times for "Locks For Love.”

Ice skating- portray a positive image and role model to the public

Looking at a "stack of stuff to do” but taking a friend shopping. What's more important?

Mold - more dangerous than we think.

Christmas Cookies now and then

Pictures

Music

Kids’ artwork

Decorations

Christmas Trees

Highway scenery

Road kill including "tires"

Contents in the grocery cart – need or want.

Tammy

Crutches - 32 years.

Mending jeans

People look so happy like they are really enjoying all the "hoopla" and preparation for this special day.

Only a fraction of "What Comes To Mind.” What comes to your mind?

Everyone's thoughts will be different, and most don't realize how many things they think about even in one single day.

Some of our Star Eagle readers have commented they like to read about events such as family and school reunions, birthdays and anniversaries, and birth and wedding announcements.  In order to read about these important things we need our faithful readers to pass along the information to us.  Also if you have an idea for a story that you think would be of interest to our readers, please contact me. 

If you have birthdays and anniversaries you would like include, or news to share please contact me via e-mail, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.; by postal mail, P. O. Box 192, Geneva, MN 56035 or telephone, 507-256-4405.

This week’s birthdays and anniversaries include:

Thursday, Dec. 11: Jane Nordhorn Allen, Justin Hove, Geoffrey Ramaker, Marty Shultz, Rick Johnson, Janice Paulsen, Beth Scripture Klucksen, Jake Thompson, Theresa Van Ravenhorst, Larry and Emily Otto

Friday, Dec. 12: Torie Richards, Jean Groth, Addison Gayle Lyman, Bernard Falksen, Allen Paulson, Matthew Butler, Barbara Lageson, Judith Johnson Tetzloff, Kim Seath, Christopher Nelson, Mark and Cheryl Johnson

Saturday, Dec. 13: Deb Bunn, Dan Carroll, Jake Pence, Eleanor Koster, Spencer Wayne, Maks Robert Edward Hanson, Michael Kelly, Mike and Michelle Peterson, Candy and Darin Baker

Sunday, Dec. 14: Makenna Marie Smith, Alexander Jayce Quimby, Keith Bengston, Randy Lehmberg, Elizabeth Falksen Brockoff, Richard Conroy, Wayne Reese, Tina VanRiper, Catherine Lageson, Jim Ladlie, Rich Krikava, Peggy Radjenovich

Monday, Dec. 15: Josh Otto, Jolene Sorenson, Brenda Burshem, Dustin Quimby, Maureen Riley, Nancy Kelly, Travis Reichl

Tuesday, Dec. 16: Dorothy Christensen Lund, Allen Larsen, Abraham Groth, Angie Deml, Karen Zicafoose, Laura Rayman, David Brandt, Bev Phillips, Vicky Dobberestein, M. Carol Nelson, Peggy Radjenovich, Paul and Mary Groth

Wednesday, Dec. 17: Zachary Tracy, Becky Edwards, Gretta Lageson, Tanya Blouin, Cheryl Cooper, Jack DeRaad, Joel Davis, Alex Edward LaFave, Keith and Leigh Ann Wayne, Lyle and Helen Swearingen, Bruce and Faye Thompson

Thursday, Dec. 18: Mary Torgerson, Catherine Suzanne Olson, Scott Lang, Chris O'Byrne, Margaret (Mugsy) Swearingen, Gavyn Tlamka, Jay and Sheri Crabtree  

Friday, Dec. 19: LaJune Hagen, Kathy Peterson, Jerry Thompson, Sheryl Tracy, Loren Haroldson, Cheryl Utpadel, James and Barb Bremmer, Chris and Jennifer Paulson, Jerry and Bev White

Saturday, Dec. 20: Corlyn Paulsen, Kyle Johnson, Laurie Swift, Deb Whelan, Odean and Andrea Johnson

Sunday, Dec. 21: Audriene Nelson, Nancy Rich, Liz Wangness, Darin Rhodes, Brandon Hagen, Dave and Tammy Peterson, Duane and Cheryl Lembke

It is your special day - take a break and celebrate!

Surprise somebody.  Call someone.  Send a card and make their day.  Little things mean a lot.

Thursday, 04 December 2014 17:14

Prices from 1941: compare if you dare

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Life moves pretty fast. If you don't stop and look around once in a while, you might miss it.

Tis the season to be thankful; no, extra thankful, for what we have and not worrying about what we haven't.

Sometimes Thanksgiving gets lost. People are already thinking ahead to Christmas, and we forget about the many wonderful things that we have been given and are able to enjoy.

I am most thankful for this newspaper. Because of it I have been able to meet some of the most wonderful and amazing people I could ever know. That might not have happened if there weren't stories to cover and share with all of you. 

To be sure there is laughter and tears that go with every article because these people become like family. I celebrate or hurt over the things that happen in their lives. I am educated every day about things and facts that may or may not be important, but they are fascinating. The richness of one’s life lives in the memories or moments we might have forgotten.

You don't have to go around the world to find people whose lives you can share. They may live next door, around the corner, or across the road. They are there. You may not know them, but maybe you do. It doesn't matter.

I met a stranger. He was having a bad day. Phantom feelings – thought it had been from ages away.  I could sympathize. Sometimes it is enough to talk about it, and we shared a moment together. Sometimes misery needs company.

I saw a little old lady, fragile and stooped. I asked her if I could give her a hug. She gave me a toothless smile and said, "Of course you can." We hugged twice and shared a moment of the day.  She came away happier, and so did I. I saw her later and she smiled. It was priceless and didn't cost a thing.

I was listening to the radio. A lady called in, inquiring if they still make 7-Up candy bars. It began a search for information. The 7-Up candy bar was bought out by the Seven Up bottling company for less confusion years ago, but is still being made in a lesser form and can be bought through an antique candy company.  

A number of men called in eager to share the information they knew, including information about a huge yellow building in the area of Jordon and Belle Plaine. 

What was sweet? They were happy and enthused to share their knowledge and information for others. 

How many people enjoyed the day!

Show others they are loved. Help each other to be thankful. Know you are loved because to love yourself is to love others. Be generous with hugs and kisses. Try new things but relish the old things too. Be happy. Show compassion. Be grateful. Dream big. Respect one another. Laugh out loud. 

It is a proven fact that at least five minutes of genuine laughter a day is crucial to your wellbeing.

I went to get a haircut. My friend Bev had a booklet in the shop that my mother found while she was waiting her turn. The booklet was about interesting facts about 1941. Bev explained that 1941 was the year her husband was born. 

I had a grocery list in mind: Thanksgiving dinner, of course.

Seventy-three years of cost of living. Compare if you dare.

The average income was $1,777 per year. A new house cost $4,075.00, while the average cost to rent a place to live was $32 a month.

A new car cost $850 and tuition to Harvard was $420 per year.

Gasoline was 12 cents a gallon, a movie ticket was 30 cents per person and a United States stamp cost 3 cents.

Ten pounds of sugar cost 59 cents, a gallon of vitamin D milk was 54 cents, a pound of coffee was 45 cents, a pound of bacon was 42 cents, a dozen eggs cost 20 cents, fresh ground hamburger was 20 cents a pound and a pound loaf of bread was 8 cents a loaf.

The best things in life are still 100% free. They are the people we love, the places we've been and the memories we've made along the way.

Make someone happy. Be nice. Try gratitude as an attitude, and you'll have even more blessings to count.

This week’s birthdays and anniversaries include:

• Thursday, November 27th: Jack Kuchenbecker, Kyle Goslee, Olivia Rae Kohn, Paul Kasper, Cyrstal Spurr, Mike Draayer, Lorna Berg, Sandra Tonsing

• Friday, November 28th: Quinn Lauren Wayne, Vicki Peterson, Jackie & Scott Miller

• Saturday, November 29th: Connie Smith, Dean Peterson, Emily Butler, La Vonna Ruhl, Christy & Tim Berry, Pastor Carrie & Dan McElfresh

• Sunday, November 30th: Dan Mrotz, Lindsey Hagen, Lindsey Schlaak, Sophia Jepson, Eric Knudson, Norell Wood, Kellen Utpadel, David & Lizell Swearingen, Andy & Emily Butler

• Monday, December 1st: Ethan Elliot Marzoff, Kyle Anthony Neidermeier, Jim Cornelius, Brian Waage, Laurie Ellis, Teri Horan Finke, Barbara Wangsness

• Tuesday, December 2nd: Maryalice Hanson, Liam William Philip Abbott, Allura Danon Johnson, Leah Wayne, Allura Danon Johnson, Paige Sorenson, Lyle Paulson, Jean Richards Worrell, Helen Sawyer, Heidi Wangsness, Heather Peterson, Dale Schewe

• Wednesday, December 3rd: Eric Degan, Ethan Fletcher Cornelius, Brian Van Ravenhorst

May you find joy and pleasure all around you on your special day. Thanksgiving and every day are days for giving thanks.


Friday, 21 November 2014 20:46

Let’s hope they never go extinct

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There is something about that old red barn one can see leaving Geneva to the west. Doubtfully used and red as barns always used to be, its purposes seem to be one of nostalgia. I love it. It is a reminder of so many things it warms my heart.

Not long ago I received a story of an old barn on my computer. It stayed in my mind and conjured up thoughts of my own.

There are getting to be fewer and fewer – old barns, I mean. There is nostalgia about those old buildings. Will they someday be extinct?

I know I am inclined to comparisons but there is much to be said and compared with old barns and the farmers who once owned them. 

When I was growing up I was lucky enough to catch a little of the value of the old barn on my grandparents’ farm. Not really great in many ways; the inside was clambered together in a fashion to contain the cows and young stock. As kids, my sister and I loved the little calves and orphaned sheep we feed on bottles, especially since it was not an everyday thing, so we enjoyed it and never got tired. The cats made their home there, and came around for a hand out from those who were milking by hand. Those sharp cats would catch the stream of milk with more accuracy than a baseball player up to bat. Modern “conveniences" took over much of the milking but there were always "stripers" or nervous cows to be handled with care. 

I wish I had one of the old milking stools my Grandpa made and used in his milking days. But then there are a number of things that Grandpa made from scratch that would be treasures today. 

We can always find comparisons to "those good old days" and this is one of them. I recently went to a funeral. There were people there who had aged since I last saw them. Noticeably, the hair was thinner and touched with silver and there were a few wrinkles here and there.

Is it fair we compare people with those old barns? Many now only sit where they were "planted" so to speak, serving no great need because time has changed their original purposes. Some are storehouses and still serve in any way they can. Barns and beings may still hold artifacts no longer useful, but full of sentimental value. Some are a little creaky with "a board" lose here and there.  Some are neglected and deteriorating more than those who still get moderate repair. Their usefulness is debatable, but there is still something special about those old barns and old farmers – and their wives.

Old barns and people are alike in value and such a part of life. The shingles may be loose, the paint fading and there is an outward look of silver, but inside there is pure gold. The thought and memories and purpose they once served gives credence to them.

Next time you see an old friend and notice the changes and erosion from the years that may have caused deterioration, remember it may have increased their value, and yours. The beauty of what they contributed to life when it was needed and appreciated.

Nothing lasts forever; we only wish it would.

They were like jewels: beautiful, bright, adored and priceless. Their sparkle made life an occasion.  And then they were gone. I know it is to a better place but there is that feeling of losing something one can't retrieve. Robbed? No. But gone forever.

That is when you search the little boxes in the mind to find bits and pieces – remnants of what they were to you.

You know that as you age and they do too, there will be more! You try not to think of it. I question in my mind, would they have thought of this day as a happy day with all their friends and relatives there to honor their memory and celebrate their life? 

So often I come away from a funeral thinking how much the deceased would have loved visiting and being with so many they didn't get a chance to see too often.

Oh, there will be others who will fill the void, but never replace the jewel that was a friend, relative or just a good person. 

Beautiful, valuable, shiny too, but just not the same jewel that once decorated one’s life. New buildings are built to replace old, new people will come into our lives. Appreciate new people. Old barns and old friends will leave us and new ones will come along to enrich our lives.

Go out of your way to be good to someone today. You will discover that you can make somebody's entire day with a smile, a phone call, or whatever it is you have to share.

Don't forger our elders; they have so much to give to those who listen, but they are the ones who deserve to receive. 

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Birthdays and anniversaries:

• Thursday, November 20th: Chuck Pence, Howard Pence, Eric Simon, David A. Hanson, Angie Blouin Sikel, Dennis Blouin, Scott Brekke, Malinda Fennert, Alisha Waalkens, Heather Crabtree Krenke, Kristine Kelly, Rachel Nelson, Holly Mattson

• Friday, November 21st: Paul Wallace, Angie Johnson, Paul Kasper, Desirae Farr, Cheryl Harpel, Greg Schimek, Leah Leak, Leah Maddox Larson, Abby Underland, Dustin Burshem, Robin & Jan Jepson

• Saturday, November 22nd - Mallory Luhring, her 12th; Whitney McCamish, Jodell Hanson, Keven Larson, Donna Maixner, Jane Tappe, David L. Hanson, Jason Peterson, Jacki Shadden, Elzo Peterson

• Sunday, November 23rd: Amy Hunnicutt Kromminga, Lisa Holmes Rietsema, Margaret Loven, Marietta Sommers Rupe, Rick Thompson, Sara

Anderson, Joyce Ditlveson, Amanda Farr, George & Diana Ritz

• Monday, November 24th: Blaine Boverhuis, Deb Peterson Schmidt, Ellen Pearl LaFave, Heather Snow, Lisa Hunnicutt Vreeman, Bob Hanson, Rita Glynn, Abraham Ladlie, Kyle Layland, Scott & Lisa Reitsema

• Tuesday, November 25th: Scott Groth, Calista Lerum, Randy Born, Mitchel Hill, Joel Langlie, Brian Vogt, Gideon Jude Long, Daryl & Kathy Paulsen, Ken & Iva Sletten

• Wednesday, November 26th: Darlene Krohnberg, Cody Christensen, Robert Gasner, Linda Stieglbauer, Drew Vangen, Ashley Bergerson, Al & Diane Lee, Jamie & Kate Cameron


If there is a word for Minnesota, it might be weather – it’s unpredictable. I suppose in reality you could add many more: cold, windy, bright, dull, etc. Minnesota weather: if you don't like it, stick around – it will change!

After our Thanksgiving meal levels off, we can sit back and think about all the things the past year has brought us, both good and bad.

It isn't surprising that our country has increasingly high obesity rates.  All our celebrations and special occasions seem to center around food, and the temptation gets the better of us. Sad to say it is really an excuse, because what we overeat in that day isn't the culprit; it’s all the days we overeat in.

It is interesting to pick up almost any magazine and you will see it has big, big letters on the front in regards to cutting calories, losing body fat, etc. Good attention getter, encouraging people to buy.  Then while looking inside one will find pages of good habits and ways one can eat that will slim you down. Plastered on the next page are the pictures of succulent foods made with all the stuff that made grandmother’s food so good: cream, butter, sugars and such. Oh, we are such hypocrites.  Hurrah for those who stick to a "tease taste" and come away from the table feeling fine. 

So then it is onward and upward to Christmas. For many it has been a good excuse to put out their finest array of lights, flowers, and evergreens, indeed making it the prettiest time of the year. I am glad people enjoy sharing their Christmas decorations with others. It is also a good time to bring out the old Christmas songs and artists like Bing Crosby and Nat King Cole and so on. And before the kids start rolling their eyes at the tradition, advise them to really listen to the words and to the music.

There are health benefits too. Music can lower your blood pressure 26% by triggering the release of brain chemicals that ease tension and improve blood flow. Music can reduce aches and pains by 21% by distracting you from discomfort and help you fall asleep faster by calming your nervous system. 

From the sound of things you can almost buy gifts for the multitude and almost for free if you are willing to stand in line at absurdly early hours in the morning to take advantage of those "killer" bargains on Black Friday. And if you have the right cell phone or camera you can compare store prices by reading the bar code. That takes someone smarter or more ambitious than me.

At any rate, there are more things to Christmas to bring joy and good will. My girls are already planning their cookie-baking day, an event as much fun as Christmas Day. The flour may fly and the sparkles shine, but the girls and the granddaughters do so enjoy their day in my kitchen.

It is a special thing for me. When I was first diagnosed with cancer, I delayed the operation because I didn't have my Christmas cookies baked. My daughters came home and we spent the weekend baking cookies and then delivered a great number of plates of cookies to family and friends. We were so busy we didn't have time to think about tomorrow. We laughed and enjoyed our time together and later the thanks from so many. Unforgettable: Mrs. Chris Hammerholt. She was so thankful and appreciative and marveled at the "gift." The gift was ours. Anything that comes from the heart fills the heart of the giver.

Christmas will soon be upon us with more special efforts and care for the people we love. I've said it before and I'll say it again. I feel we have an unbelievable area of people who are incredibly kind.  Everyone feels like family. They are. They share. They creatively think of things to enhance the world we live in, including children who do great things. 

Giving a gift of yourself is the nicest gift anyone can receive, whether its taking extra time reading a special story, singing a song, attending special functions or events, visiting shut-ins, or sending a letter. Yes, postage is up but where can you get more for your money, especially if you take the time to write, even a little bit, and not just sign our name? (It doesn't cost any more if you write a short note) People will know you're thinking of them and it can be done early before the Christmas rush starts. They don't all have to be done at the same time.

My sister always decorates the largest tree in the most extravagant way. Sounds like work when you're just two people and work everyday. It is her way of reliving every Christmas as she puts each bulb or ornament on the tree, as it holds a special memory of the days of her life. She even thought one Christmas that maybe she shouldn't bother to put up her tree, but later couldn't help herself.  Imagine her surprise when one of her neighbors commented how her children looked forward to seeing her beautiful 20-foot Christmas tree decorated and lit when they went by.

Christmas Eve has always had its special moments. My cousin, Barbara, was born on Christmas Eve and has always been special to me.

My mother remembers the things her parents did to make Christmas special for them, when times didn't always dictate big, expensive gifts. My Grandpa made wooden toys and Grandma sewed special things and found "dime store" goods that wouldn't be just a dime today. 

And I remember my Grandma Hanson telling about when she was a kid and the live tree was decorated on Christmas Eve and unveiled on Christmas morning when the big double doors to the living room, which were usually closed to save heat, were opened up.

I will always cherish the story and lesson she told of when she and her siblings hung their Christmas stocking in hopes of getting a special gift. She told how she found an orange in her Christmas stocking, so she decided to try again the next night. When she checked her stocking the next morning she found an apple. The third time wasn't so good; it was the skeleton of bones from the fish they had had for supper the night before!

Remembering rural school programs was another favorite memory my Grandmother shared. Can you remember what you were taught to recite for your school programs? The stage back then was formed using a wire strung from one side to the other of the one room schoolhouse. Sheets were often used for "drapes" and if lighting wasn't available, daylight had to do. They practiced every day and then it was time for the program before the Christmas holiday, which was followed with about two weeks of vacation time. 

Take time to think about your favorite Thanksgiving and Christmas holiday memories and the most memorable gift you were ever given.

Some of our Star Eagle readers have commented they like to read about events such as family and school reunions, birthdays and anniversaries, and birth and wedding announcements. In order to read about these important things we need our faithful readers to pass along the information to us. Also if you have an idea for a story that you think would be of interest to our readers, please contact me. 

If you have birthdays and anniversaries you would like include, or news to share please contact me via e-mail, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.; by postal mail, P. O. Box 192, Geneva, MN 56035 or telephone, 507-256-4405.

This week’s birthdays and anniversaries include:

• Thursday, November 13th: Geoffrey Nelson. Abbey Louise Titus, Bill Johnson, Jeffrey Nelson, Diane Brighton, Earl & Janis Klinger, Steve & Pennie Ladlie

• Friday, November 14th: Brickyn Moen, Cassandra Hill, Dakota Tracy, Kaye Larson Allen, Jill Ottesen Kehne, Gloria Tufte Keehn, Dawn Farr, Brandon Grunwald

• Saturday, November 15th: Eli Fussy, Sydney Ann Collins, Greg Riley, John Flor Jr., Daniel Mucha, Lee Waage, Cynthia Callahan, Jacob Douglas Bell,

• Sunday, November 16th: Ross Sletten, Asa Daniel Russell Johnson, Matthew Marcus, Betty Brandt, Ronald Johnson, Fred Schmidt, Miranda Dubois

• Monday, November 17th: Eli James Lutgens, Presley Ann Broskoff, Brynn Routh, Mikayla Sue Brouwers, Stuart Kubat, Nathan Larson, Milton Wayne, Gloria Jensen, Nathan Schmidt, Elvern Holland, David Kasper, Jim Olson, Daniel Ingvaldson, John Nelson, Trisha Cyr, Brad & Donna Borchert

• Tuesday, November 18th: Edrea Marae Kubista, Toni Wayne Smith, LeRoy Peterson, Kim Lehmberg, Ernest Anderson, Paul Groth, Allen Schewe, Gordy & Karol Carroll

• Wednesday, November 19th: Sidney Ellen Schultz, Kolby Dale Boverhuis, Deb Schmidt, Leah Scott, Roger Dulas, Jennifer Kycek, Chanelle McCamish, Darrin Peterson, Mandi Wobschall, William Conley, LaShawn & Gretchen Ray, Jeff & Julie Cornelius

May God bless you with a beautiful year to enjoy!


Friday, 07 November 2014 02:35

Once in a while, try the road less traveled

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My husband has a habit, a hobby, whatever. Instead of taking the road most often used to go somewhere, he is inclined to take different roads. Interesting, really, and it is surprising how the environment that surrounds them differs. It’s true that even on a road you use every day things that can change like magic.

This reminds me of an e-mail I recently received. The author was talking about traveling down the road often just looking at the view, especially if it is appealing. As the leaves fall from the trees, areas become bare and we are able to see things we might not have noticed before, though it had been there for quite some time. We just never noticed it.

The same is true about people. We see people all the time but often rarely see their circumstance. On the plus side they seem to have everything they could probably want — nothing that would indicate they have any discomforts of life. We have to remember there are two sides on the road of life.

Sometimes we don't look down the middle of the road. If we would take a better look, what would we see? Obvious needs and poverty are easy to see, but how many good, deserving people are struggling that we don't see? Or see and do nothing about it?

This includes the fact that some people won't accept food or fuel assistance and friendships because of pride or some ignorance, or a feeling of no self worth. They quietly exist perhaps because they don't know what else to do, are scared to ask, or think, "this is the way it used to be in my day." The goodness is there are things we can do that can make a difference.

Recently I was at a nursing home. There was a quiet, sweet little lady sitting all alone at coffee time. I tried to share some conversation with her. I had some pictures along that I shared. She didn't know the people in the pictures but she was interested. Before I left I mentioned that I used to know someone in our neighborhood who had the same last name as she did. She looked at me with tears in her eyes and said, "I am the last one of my family. There is no one else left. I lived on the farm as long as I could, but all my old neighbors are gone and new people have moved there that I do not know. I am 84 years old and all alone."

This frail little lady was supported with crutches, but when I kissed her on the forehead and asked if there was anything I could do, she said, “no” and smiled. I told her I would come again, and I will. God gave me a purpose.

So what does this have to do with a road less traveled? Sometimes we are so busy assessing those who have enough and forget to look at the middle of the road and see the ones we tend to overlook.

When faced with obstacles that seem overwhelming, open your eyes, look for a new road and head in a new direction. You might find a wonderful surprise waiting for you, just around the corner.

Our road will be smooth and untroubled no matter what life may send, if we travel the pathway together, and walk side by side with a friend.

For those of us still out "running with the world," time goes by so swiftly we wish it would slow down. For those whose life is now in a comfortable "caring" home, or nursing home, but not the home they may have lived in for most of their lives, they may have too much time. The amenities may all be there, but there is always a need for friends to talk about old times, new times, and an outlet for any concerns they might have.

Take time, even if you don't think you have it. Even a "pop in" shows them they are not forgotten, that they are still important and thought of. Share a picture, a story, a hug, a note, a phone call. It is always good to get back to the basics — like sharing our hearts and caring for one another.

I also spent the afternoon visiting at one of our local "caring homes" on Halloween. The home opened their doors and encouraged local children to come and visit. How happy the residents were to see all the kids and their smiling faces, as they made their way around the fellowship area in their Halloween costumes. The kids received more than treats; they saw a great number of smiling faces too.

How beautiful a day can be when kindness touches it. Your life will unfold, doors will open and any goal you set for yourself can be reached. Listen to the angels. You will be blessed.

As we grow in our capacities to see and enjoy the joys that God has placed in our lives, life becomes a glorious experience of discovering His endless wonders.

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Some of our Star Eagle readers have commented they like to read about events such as family and school reunions, birthdays and anniversaries, and birth and wedding announcements. In order to read about these important things we need our faithful readers to pass along the information to us. Also if you have an idea for a story that you think would be of interest to our readers, please contact me.

If you have birthdays and anniversaries you would like include, or news to share please contact me via e-mail, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.; by postal mail, P.O. Box 192, Geneva, MN 56035 or telephone, 507-256-4405.

Birthdays and anniversaries:

• Thursday, November 6th: Brody Richards, Makota Grahm Misgen, Mary Ann Lund, Dylan Paul Moen, Jon Beck, David Hagen, Doug Klemmensen, Lauren Jo Draayer, Chad Ayers, Toni Roberts, Taylor Roberts, Kellie & Ryan Benning

• Friday, November 7th: Ella Dobberstein, Solveig Adelaine Mattson, her 4th birthday; Ava Leigh Wangsness, her 5th birthday; Alymra Seath, Jolee Johnson, Travis Diederrich, Linda Dobberstein, Scott Olson, Mark Sundwall

• Saturday, November 8th: Sydney Larson, Andrew Jensen, Brian Hughes, Burton Nelson

• Sunday, November 9th: Phyllis Hagen, Tami Lund Wacek, Scott Coxworth, Jon Aronson, Kent Kruckenburg, Cindy Gould, Tim Westrum, Christopher Jepson

• Monday, November 10th: Keith McDonald, Eric Anderson, Russell Reistad, Tomm Richards, Jennifer Zimprich, Jessica Kasper, Andrew Olson, Jessica (Johnson) & Dan Rebelein, Stan & Liz Reichl, Everett & Diane Jensen

• Tuesday, November 11th: Jason Tracy, Kate Laudon, Agnes Christensen, Ione Hagen, Dale Hunt, Paula Swearingen, Jennifer Jacobs, Dawn Diemer, Rachel Gould, Dave & Linda Brandt, Amanda Schimdt, Tory Lee Christensen

• Wednesday, November 12th: Harbor Lee Pence, 2012; Trinity Tracy Vulcan, Tatum Charlotte Vulcan, Samuel Henry Kaplan, Lois Johnson Aitchison, Jill Jensen, Holly Thompson, Craig Clausen, Helen Kellem, Scott & Jan Sorenson, Jill & Shannon Jensen

• Thursday, November 13th: Geoffrey Nelson. Abbey Louise Titus, Bill Johnson, Jeffrey Nelson, Diane Brighton, Earl & Janis Klinger, Steve & Pennie Ladlie

Make your special day be a day you'll never forget, filled with smiles, good cheer, and laughter!

Thursday, 30 October 2014 20:49

On Tuesday, know who you’re voting for and why

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A friend of my mother’s, Hilda, once told me she often likes to just sit and think - to rest - to allow things to run through her mind. I find myself doing just that at times.

I’ve always felt that the extremes of the seasons can help make up the character of those who live here. 

We start out with winter. There is a lot of adversity in winter, but it doesn’t sneak up on us - we know what is coming, we prepare for it, and some of us have learned to embrace it. We know that there will be an end to it; sometimes, it is just something we have to get through.

Spring; not just an end of adversity, but the beginning of new life, it is a time of planning and optimism.

Summer is a time that those in this part of the country have earned; long days making up for the short ones, a time when you can put in a full day’s work and still have hours of leisure time.

Fall – the term “September of our years” fits it well. It’s a time for relaxing after the bustle of summer before the winter sets in. It’s a time to slow down as the days get shorter, to appreciate the fall colors, to harvest what we have worked so hard for, and to prepare for what comes next.

I believe that our seasons help make us who we are.

In my daily ventures, on all kinds of roads, some less traveled and some I use every day, I cannot help but think there is something magical in the art along the roadside. Watching the changing of the seasons when fields that were once black then green with new life now turn brown, then become white, covered with snow before they return to black again.

It is rather Biblical in a way. God’s promise is that one should live and grow and when his task is done, it dies like a brown field before it is harvested, not knowing if times will be good, bad, or indifferent.

God said we should labor but that we should also take time to rest, but it doesn't always work that way.  Sometimes we forget, or there just isn't time. Hopefully God forgives us if we have to "juggle" that day of rest at times. We do have to remember how important those days of rest are in the cycle of life.

We also need to rely on the knowledge that new life will come again in the spring just as God has promised.

When the outside world seems difficult to take, and the stress in your life becomes overwhelming, look inside for your strength.

Let us not forget - even if we want to.

Election Day is Tuesday, November 4th. By the time the candidates this year throw enough mud around and bring up what the other person did or didn't do, would you really like to vote for anyone?

I know it is good politics to get the "name" out but I am sorry to say I feel many voters vote for a particular political party, or a family or special sounding name. 

Throughout the campaigning, if you dig deep enough and twist enough words you can usually make something out of nothing. There are those who know little or nothing about the candidates, but maybe they do better than some of us who think we know who we are voting for.

In this day and age one can look up almost anything, including information about many of the candidates, on the computer, but few take the time to do it. They just vote, and later complain because they aren't doing things the way one thinks they should be done.

One can only hope an honest person with integrity and intelligence for what he is working for, who knows the value of a dollar or who is spending it will be elected to represent us.

I for one feel the campaigning is too long and too costly. I don't really need a half dozen campaign cards filling my mailbox every day, whether it is good for the postal economy or not. And we can't forget the television, radio and newspaper ads, too. Meanwhile, who is running the government when everyone is out campaigning?

If candidates didn't spend so much money on ads and flyers sent out in the mail, and put that money into what we need to run our country, we would be in good financial shape. Maybe we need to think – if a candidate spends too much money on campaigning they will be just as extravagant in running the government.

It is important for everyone to get out and vote on Election Day, but it is hoped that you know who and what you are voting for! Be informed.

Some of our Star Eagle readers have commented they like to read about events such as family and school reunions, birthdays and anniversaries, and birth and wedding announcements. In order to read about these important things we need our faithful readers to pass along the information to us. Also if you have an idea for a story that you think would be of interest to our readers, please contact me. 

If you have birthdays and anniversaries you would like include, or news to share please contact me via e-mail, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.; by postal mail, P. O. Box 192, Geneva, MN 56035 or telephone, 507-256-4405.

This week’s birthdays and anniversaries include:

• Thursday, October 30th: Lilly Jane Wacek, Gordon Goette, Angie Broskoff Klemmensen, Allen & Barb Dobberstein

• Friday, October 31st: Happy Halloween! Kyra Barbara Kotsmith, Brooke Hanson Berg, Heather Wayne, Emily Smith, Carrie Thompson, Roseann Kasper, Jerry Neitzel, Lorraine Lent, Kaye & Mike Cady, Vonda & Andrew Komba

• Saturday, November 1st: Dakota Wangsness, Garrett Wangsness, Troy Hagen, Mike Reistad, Jamie & Sergio Hernandez

• Sunday, November 2nd: Gary Dummer, Karen Osmundson, Tracy Farr Simon, Janis Klinger, Troy Sommers, Dan Nord, Sylvia Janet Baker

• Monday, November 3rd: Nakayla Joy Butler, Preston Dean Shaunce; Brian Muri, Paula Degan Conroy, Jennifer Misgen, Lois Conklin, Tim Hanson, Aaron Sargent, Sydney McCamish, Quinn Sebastian Briedenbach, Angie & Josh Lair

• Tuesday, November 4th: Jeff Carlson, Brant Hemingway, Stuart Vangen, Grant Neitzell, Scott Anderson, Andrew Farr

• Wednesday, November 5th: Faith Jennie Nielsen, Preslie Jean Nielsen, Hope Ann Nielsen, Alyssa Hagen, Kerri Newgard d'Eustachip, David Wayne, Mavis Langlie, Chad Braaten, Allison Hanson, Allison Jensen, Skyla Kundtson

Make your special day a day you'll never forget, filled with smiles, good cheer and laughter! And may you have a very happy Halloween!


Thursday, 23 October 2014 18:12

New teachers are like a breath of fresh air

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I really don't know how I could be more impressed with the teaching staff at our local school. We seem to always have exceptional teachers here.

When I read the resumes of the new teachers I have met so far this year, I could hardly believe we could be so fortunate to attract these great teachers. They seem to bring such high expectations and experience with them to their classrooms it excites me. I feel like I want to go back to school again.

Their enthusiasm, goals and background are commendable. They sound very eager to share what they have learned with their students.

Some of the new teachers are local residents, a couple in fact graduated from our school district. I feel that is a plus because they know the territory and the trends that are here. Yet some are from distances far enough away that they have brought many new ideas with them.

Several new teachers come from parents with educational backgrounds. In fact, Emily Dahle’s mother is also teaching in our local district.

Emily, the new Minnesota Reading Corps tutor for the 4 and 5–year-old preschool class, spent a year in Africa with a mission team, bringing morality and knowledge into the classroom of a territory unlike our own. Emily, who is also schooled in business, taught English to young children in Africa.

It wasn't just about going on a mission. Emily had to first make the decision to go and then apply. She then had to wait patiently to see if she would be accepted. Once she got the word, she had to find a way to raise the money she would need to make the trip a reality. These wonderful traits are bound to rub off on her students.

Brenda Dobberstein, another local resident, had previously taught in Blooming Prairie and Owatonna, as well as in her home, as she is a mother or three highly motivated and mature young boys. She's taught them well and one can see the same qualities in how she teaches her students. She believes that it is important to connect with each of her students.

Drew Paukert, what can I say? This remarkable young man moved in to the territory as soon as he knew he would be part of the community. He likes that small town feeling and the welcome he has received. He also believes that sports also provide an education too and his involvement is to his credit. His goal of growing as an educator makes a positive influence on all of his students.

Drew’s parents too, are in education and he credits them with being great educators and instilling in him his passion for teaching.

When Jillian Freeman was trying to decide on a career, her father laughed and said, "I  always knew you'd be a teacher. You've played school since you were a child and you always wanted to be a leader.”

And so she is with strength and experience teaching fourth grade at Ellendale. A former teacher gave her encouragement to apply at NRHEG.

Coy Hupfeld celebrates learning. He doesn't give tests but conducts "Celebrations of Learning." I for one have found that tests just did not reflect my knowledge of the subject. Others have told me that tests just make them "freeze." He believes learning should be fun and he brings thinking to his classroom with humor. His goal is to inspire his students to be lifelong learners who think outside the box and gain an overall knowledge  of what is going on in the world. His interest in history and political science is his motivation.

And I still have a couple more teachers — Molly Eckhardt and Samanatha Klukow — yet to meet, and I look forward to learning all about them too!

We have also been touched by great instructors who have retired and moved on to other things, secure in the knowledge that these new teachers are like a fresh breath of air, adding to the experiences of the former teachers.

Currently our local district is comprised of 37 instructors in New Richland, 44 in Ellendale, plus 15 office staff and three administrators.

Our teachers focus on the needs of each of the students, from those with special needs on to those with the exceptional learning abilities.

And let us not forget the community efforts. Shawn Larson, a 6th-grade teacher, is also a member of one of our local fire departments. Shawn again organized a great instructional program for Fire Prevention Week. The kids were included in hands-on activities, which makes for improved learning and remembering.

The local P.T.O. is such a plus as they help bring fun and adventure to education. They provide needs that might not be there except for their efforts.

Some of our Star Eagle readers have commented they like to read about events such as family and school reunions, birthdays and anniversaries, and birth and wedding announcements.  In order to read about these important things we need our faithful readers to pass along the information to us.  Also if you have an idea for a story that you think would be of interest to our readers, please contact me. 

  If you have birthdays and anniversaries you would like include, or news to share please contact me via e-mail, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.; by postal mail, P.O. Box 192, Geneva, MN 56035 or telephone, 507-256-4405.

Birthdays and anniversaries:

• Thursday, October 23rd: Jacklynn Kress, Marian Dahl, Gene Grubbish, Kimberly Kilian, Grant Ver Hey, Stewart Hatch, Rick & Lana Thompson, Dan & Tina Schmidt, Gary & Deb Nelson

• Friday, October 24th: Noelle Mae Brekke, her 4th; Jacob Keith Rigby, his 5th; Jeff Dobbertstein, Bobby Dobberstein, Joseph Bailey, Dan Willert, Eunice Hanson, Bob Wayne, Ashley Ashton, Gil & Kay Nelson, Lorna & Russell Reistad

• Saturday, October 25th: Mavis Bartsch, Jady Beenken, Dean Van Hal, Charlotte Haberman, Heidi Crabtree Owen, Mikaela Krikava, Spencer & Barb Kubat, Dean & Sandy Jensen, Breanna & Timothy Breidenbach, Heidi & Jason Owen

• Sunday, October 26th: Jannell Tufte, Jeanne Holland, Heather Hove, Reece Gabriel Routh, Jake Andrew Wiersma, Kevin Hamor, Conner Dean Phode, Jamie & Andrea Mettler

• Monday, October 27th: Jason Born, David Anderson, Bruce Yanke, James Bremer Jr., Mitchell & Amy Edwards, Donly & Joanne Cromwell

• Tuesday, October 28th: David Thompson, Jan Sorenson, Lisa Morin, Rick Horan, Randy Horan, Todd Brotizman, Rich Weckwerth, Sue Westrum, Tanner Jorge Wilson, Lyle & Darlyne Paulson, Jane & Jeff Allen, Amanda & Paul Rovnak

• Wednesday, October 29th: Ann Anderson, Scott Klocek, Mark Motl, Bob Haried, Kayli Rose Johnson, Bailey Ann Davis, Warren & Mary Torgerson, Craig & Jennifer Torgerson

• Thursday, October 30th: Lilly Jane Wacek, Gordon Goette, Angie Broskoff Klemmensen, Allen & Barb Dobberstein

• Friday, October 31st: Happy Halloween! Kyra Barbara Kotsmith, Brooke Hanson Berg, Heather Wayne, Emily Smith, Carrie Thompson, Roseann Kasper, Lorraine Lent, Kaye & Mike Cady, Vonda & Andrew Komba

Hoping that your special day puts a song in your heart to last the whole year long!


Friday, 17 October 2014 01:08

There really is no reasonable excuse

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I can almost hear my friend say it: "Nothing is so bad it isn't good for something."

True, the recent controversy over Adrian Peterson and his small child has brought considerable attention to the growing concerns of child abuse. There is nothing new about child abuse except it seems to be excruciating and escalating. And when it concerns a well known individual it brings it to the news.

In a recent article that was published, Steele County reports that between 500 and 600 cases of abuse have been reported so far this year and the numbers are still growing. That is reported cases.

It is hard to understand how anyone can abuse a child, especially their own. They are children for such a short time; it seems like we should delight in every minute.

Abusers have many excuses and falsehoods about why. "My father did it," "My mother did it," "I was frustrated," "The kid was uncooperative," "He cried," and the list goes on. Yes, the list goes on, but there really is no plausible excuse. Even the child who has physical and mental disabilities that can make them hard to deal with from time to time does not cause reason to put more hurt on their young bodies.

I don't know what the circumstances were for whipping this 4-year-old child, but wouldn't it have been more adult to contain the child in their arms, telling them you love them instead? We need to tell them there are things they shouldn't do because they are not likeable acts, but it can be administered with caring, not catastrophe.

Taking time for the child and the parent to think about the situation makes more sense than making the act worse by hurting and accepting the situation.

Kids make us laugh. They make us cry. They make us proud. They can drive us crazy at times. They surprise us too and make our lives good. Moody, stubborn, abrupt - we love them anyway. After all, they are a product of their parents!

How would you feel if someone else treated your child with abuse? You would more than likely be outraged, and you should be. Why should it be any different if the act is performed by someone close to the child, like their father or mother?

Things change in a moment. It isn't worth the chance that your child’s last memory would be how you hurt him/her and not about how caring and loving you were.

Child abuse can come in many disguises. Mental abuse may not leave visible bruises or cause breaks, but it can be like a brand — burned into the mind. It is so easy to say things you may not truly mean at the time, but time doesn't erase its effect. 

Words; they aren't just words. Remember the old adage, "Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can never hurt me?” Not true. The brain has a way of remembering things like "stupid," "dumb," "idiot," and that's just a few. Did someone tell you, "I hate you?” Did you forget it? They were probably just angry at the time, and in fact loved you very much, but it hurt you and you may always remember it.

There is a campaign on now to try to minimize bullying. Where does it come from? Bullying occurs when someone has power over someone that he/she feels is "less" than they are. But in reality it is compounding the feeling of that person’s own reality that he/she is in fact "less" so they take it out on someone they feel superior to. If parents inadvertently exercise their power over their children, does the child resist it by "getting back," not at the person who over powers them, but on someone they may feel inferior? 

That is where love should come in, positive communication, good role models and such. Everyone has their insecurities that shouldn't be magnified, even if some aspects may be true. Instead it should be reversed, in essence, by positive communication. 

By not inferring someone is different or "less than" works at building self esteem. Why? Because if a child has true self esteem he/she doesn't feel a need to bully someone else. We need to learn to bring out the good qualities they possess.

I truly think things have changed for the better, but children with problems should not be obviously treated differently because it sets them up for bullying.

I was impressed with our local school district when they gave other children a chance to learn sign language because they were "fortunate" to have a deaf child in their classroom. The kids love it and love him. What an educational experience. He is special and shares with his friends.

I was privileged to live next door to a child with Downs Syndrome when I was growing up. She was the most positive influence on my life I could know and it didn't stop there. It flowed over to my children, and their children as well.

Then there is Anne. She is one of the most beautiful people I know whose love for her child is so strong she feels his defects are a blessing to her life.

Adrian Peterson, I am sorry your father hurt you so bad you felt you had a right to discipline your small child with hurt, not love. Times have changed and though it was not right years ago, it was done. It shouldn't have been done and definitely not now, when we should understand.

If one is in the public eye, they, above all, should be a positive role model, enriching the lives of children. No matter what may be achieved on the football field, what people will remember is how that person made them feel.

Always call a child by their true name, not something derogatory. You have power to end child abuse!

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Birthdays and anniversaries:

• Thursday, October 16th: Taylor Tieskotter, Kade Schember, Jenny Shaunce, Sabrina Marie Bauers, Allie Larson, Donna & Gordon Hanson, Daniel & Regina Van Kampen, Jamie & Amber Jensen, Travis & Stacy Ingnaszewski

• Friday, October 17th: Lucas Bailey, Pat Wayne, Dale Strenge, David Killian, Sherrie Dahl Shott, Dustin Wayne, Pam & Rick Cook, Sidney & David Kasper, Andy & Mary Ditlevson

• Saturday, October 18th: Gordon Jensen, Carrie Nolan Allen, Andreas Quinn Vu, Stan & Cindy Nelson, Randy & Cindy Horan, Tait & Jennifer Ingvaldson, Carol & Larry Cox

• Sunday, October 19th: Robert William Pulley, Jody Johnson, Katie Ann Carlson, Jan Klocek Louks, Roger Larson, Jeanene Reese, Kristi Nelson, Everett Thompson, Barbara Olson, Esther Rodi, Jim & Laureen Hohansee

• Monday, October 20th: Kimberly Wangsness, Matthew Beckman, Shannon Smith, Diana Beckmann, Jenny Herbst, Erick Widlund, Casey Kunkel, Nicole Larson, Doris Scripture Steele, Rick Kelly, Adam Lang, Scott & Joni Groth, Laurie & DeWayne Jensen, Jim & Nancy Bottelson, Brad & Nicole Edwards

• Tuesday, October 21st: Todd Utpadel, Brian Riley, Deb Mucha, Peter Benson, Natalie Kuehni, Steven F. Christenson, Diane & Dan Gallentine, John & Trisha Cyr

• Wednesday, October 22nd: Scott Sorenson, Jennifer Pence, Lyle Swearingen, Brian Johnson, Kelsey Wayne, Dave De Vriendt, David Polzin, Colleen Thompson, Sage Tristan Lang, Clifford Coy, Diane Gallentine Pfieffer, Kailey Ann Christensen

• Thursday, October 23rd: Jacklynn Kress, Marian Dahl, Gene Grubbish, Kimberly Kilian, Grant Ver Hey, Stewart Hatch, Rick & Lana Thompson, Dan & Tina Schmidt, Gary & Deb Nelson

• Friday, October 24th: Noelle Mae Brekke, her 4th; Jacob Keith Rigby, his 5th; Jeff Dobbertstein, Bobby Dobberstein, Joseph Bailey, Dan Willert, Eunice Hanson, Bob Wayne, Ashley Ashton, Gil & Kay Nelson, Lorna & Russell Reistad

May you find joy and pleasure all around you on your special day!


Thursday, 09 October 2014 19:20

Remember when kids were permitted to be kids?

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It’s nice to get feedback, so I was thrilled to have a reader write back to tell me what I didn't know about sandlot baseball. Here’s what I learned:

Like the Calvin and Hobbes cartoons, the rules were made up as you went along. 

There was usually no catcher - the batter retrieved the ball and threw it back to the pitcher. To eliminate squabbling, there were no called strikes - just “swing and a miss.” With only two on a side, if one batter hit a single, the other batter didn't drive him home, they simply switched runners on the bases so the first hitter could hit again. On defense, the pitcher played the infield, and there was only one outfielder. Home runs were adjudicated by artificial boundaries - sometimes set by stones, a jacket, or a lunch sack. The “10-run rule" applied: if one team got ahead by 10 runs, that was the end of the game. If time allowed, a doubleheader was played – but the star of the winning team had to switch sides to even out the obvious imbalance of talent.

Choosing sides or "first up" was done by the time-honored practice of throwing a bat up in the air, and the other side catching it. The non-catcher side then took a grip directly above the first - then the other side took a grip - alternating until they came to the end. Invariably, only a short section if bat was left, called "chicken claws,” the player that claimed control of the bat usually had to grasp the knob end from above - hence the name. Did he have control of the bat? The opposing team had one chance to kick the bat out of his hands - if they succeeded, they had the next pick, or "first up.”

A lot can be learned from sandlot baseball: organization of your own activity (as against having it provided for you), division of authority and labor, rules that fit the situation instead of theory, "dispute settlement," and a chance for everyone to be a star. To be sure, it isn't like today, when there are no winners, or losers, nobody even keeps score, and everyone gets the trophy.

Have you ever wondered, "Where have all the kids gone?" It used to be that small towns were crawling with kids - playing sports, “just palling around” – doing something. Usually activities of their own creation, not something invented for them by adults. There was no Little League - no coaches - not even parents to impress or disappoint - just kids having fun with each other and setting their own rules. They didn't know the term at the time, but they were learning good life lessons (and often making friends for life). They were "interacting.” 

Compare those hot and sweaty kids to those of today, who only experience life vicariously – through pre-arranged sports, non-active games, or "friends" through the Internet - "friends" they may never have met. 

Look around. Even though our small towns have increased in population, you don't see kids on the streets.

In the fall, it was football. Like baseball, there could be as few as two guys on a "team." Since you had to play both offense and defense, there was a minimum of a quarterback/linebacker, and a lineman/wide receiver on each side. The ball was snapped to the quarterback, who either ran with it or passed it to the other guy. On defense, one or both defensemen would rush - or one would rush the passer while the other one covered the receiver.

Fall is also a time for hunting. Kids hunted together, or by themselves, but a special treat was to be allowed to go hunting with Dad and his friends.

In the winter, sledding was the sport. Very few people skied. (Maybe it had something to do with the leather bindings and the home-made skis.) Kids trudged together out to the sliding hill, the little kids terrified of the long, steep drop. There were no goose-down or fiberfill jackets in those days; just a stocking cap, mittens, a wool jacket, and four-buckle overshoes. Blue jeans got wet - frozen stiff, and they were cold - but the "long-Johns" saved the day. If the snow was thin, or packed, the Flexible Flyer was the sled of choice. If the snow was loose, the wooden toboggan was best. Plastic sleds and "saucers?" They didn't come along until years later.

It was a long slog out to the hill, then to climb to the top but the exhilarating 20-second ride down the hill was worth it! Not to mention the bragging rights for having the daring to do so! 

Once in a while, adults (anyone over 20) could go sledding, but it was almost always just a kid thing. There was no worry about collisions, hitting the barbed wire fence at the end, falling off the sled at breakneck speed, or broken tailbones from sitting on the half inch of toboggan between you and the ground. How often do you see kids sledding on their own today? 

Springtime meant kids and water: Digging a ditch to drain puddles – or damming up a puddle to make it ever bigger to splash in. Fishing in a "stream" that nobody has ever seen a fish in. Throwing sticks ("boats") in the pond. Seeing who could make the biggest splash the furthest from shore with a stone. Getting the bikes out (though they were often ridden all winter through the snow).

You may have seen government Public Service announcements about “getting kids to move - to play.” We don’t need government initiatives. We just need to let kids be kids. 

Take away the electronic games and tell them to go outside and play. Yes, they’ll get bumps, bruises, and scrapes, but they’ll also learn to interact with people, to organize activities on their own, to interact with people face-to-face instead of electronically, to develop friendships - and yes, to know the consequences of acting imprudently. It’s part of child development, and years later, they’ll have stories to tell - and friends to relate those stories to – “Remember that time we...” It is far better than the sad recollection “I was playing a video game, and I got to level two!” Get kids outside!

Kids see life differently than adults. Small kids often play with boxes instead of the gift. Cardboard boxes can be transformed into all kinds of vehicles. Blankets on clotheslines become tents and forts. Any game can have the rules changed to fit the situation. Only kids could see the fun of throwing a ball over the house, being "it,” or racing each other to exhaustion - no adult supervision required. All you need is a "best friend" to do it with - and if you could come up with the one for a bottle of pop to share, it was even better. Ever get the idea that kids might be overly "sanitized" and protected? Adults might not like both kids drinking out of the same bottle, but as every kid knows, "Friends don't have cooties!” 

Sometimes, I think we do too much for our kids - for most of us, our mothers would say, "Go play outside - come home when it gets dark. I’ll turn the porch light on." We always found something to amuse ourselves.

Some of our Star Eagle readers have commented they like to read about events such as family and school reunions, birthdays and anniversaries, and birth and wedding announcements. In order to read about these important things we need our faithful readers to pass along the information to us. Also if you have an idea for a story that you think would be of interest to our readers, please contact me.

If you have birthdays and anniversaries you would like include, or news to share please contact me via e-mail, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.; by postal mail, P. O. Box 192, Geneva, MN 56035 or telephone, 507-256-4405.

Birthdays and anniversaries:

• Thursday, October 9: Matt Kubiatowicz, Joshua Kasper, Cheryl Paulsen Wilson, Randy Mucha, Nancy Jo Anderson, Ashley Hove, Keith Neidermeier, Dennis Blouin

• Friday, October 10: Pat Goodnature, Trevin Stollard, Aarin Gray Pirsig, his 2nd; Eric Anderson, Nicole Anderson Loken, Luverne Hamor, Haley Hanson, LeRoy Ingvaldson, Nicole Lonning, Betty DeRaad, Elena Grace Spande

• Saturday, October 11: Alisha Moody, Reed Michael Kath, Mitchell Edwards, Ebonie Mullenmaster, Earl Klinger, Mayro Leak Kubista, Melissa Otto, Jenna Swearingen, Mike Trumble, Cory McGrath, Shawna Besco, John Cyr, Alisha Moody, Lee and Jody Loverink

• Sunday, October 12: Katilyn Olivia Crabtree, Les Shawback Jr., Christopher Wallace, Beth Spande, Marilyn Dobberstein, Terrie Mullenmaster, Maurice Mullenmaster, Vikki Pence, Roxann Ditlevson, Lewis Kelly, Denise Jensen Bronner, Charlie and Becky Phagan, Larry and Terry Jensen, Vera and Todd Fitterer

• Monday, October 13: Hunter Stephen Knutson, his 9th; Journey Lynn Utpadel, Courtney Ann Deml, Otto Nels Oquist, Mitchell Wallace, Jackie Flor, Rita Thompson, Suzanne Peterson, Becky Wallace, Mikkel and Jennifer Iverson

• Tuesday, October 14: Jim Lutgens, Reece Alexander, Chris Ritz, Janet Goette, Dan Hanson, Breanna and Tim Briedenbach, Delana and Daniel Routh

• Wednesday, October 15: Barb Kuckebecker, Madison Lynn Homuth, Corbin Brocker, Colin Matthew Felt Farr, Tony Anderson, Sandy Jensen, Ed Ver Hey, Leroy and Garnet Folie, Heidi and Tim Schaefer

May every day in the year ahead bring you something to enjoy!

Friday, 03 October 2014 17:01

Four works fine for baseball and babies

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I was sitting in the shade watching a most interesting game of baseball recently. Four young boys were playing four-man baseball. Yes, four-man baseball.

It was as exciting and intense as any Twins game. It got a little tricky with only two guys on each team, but they had it worked out. Though the pitcher for both teams was always the pitcher, somehow he also managed to be the catcher, first baseman and played in the outfield as well.

Did I say it was exciting? 

All was going well until someone from Park and Rec came along and told the boys they couldn’t play on the diamond because it had been chalked for a big game that night. The boys didn't protest; they quietly picked up their equipment and left - each in a different direction.

Sure, it takes time to line those fields, but I felt bad for the boys just the same. They were having so much fun.

It was early morning, and the first pitch for the big game that night was many hours away. The boys would likely never come near the chalk line - after all, there were only four of them. After the boys were gone, it seemed to me the diamond looked sad and empty.

I guess I felt the boys were cheated. How many hours would the diamond be idle before the game would begin? Couldn't the chalk have waited until later? Those boys were playing a quiet, sportsman type game. They weren't causing a disturbance, robbing a bank, shooting a friend, or messing with drugs. They weren't even drinking pop or littering.

Considering the value of land - how many years will it lie idle waiting for little boys or girls to grow up to be adult players? Where will the young kids play in the meantime?

I think we lost the game. The game was called by interference, and there were no winners! 

Talking about the number four - I feel so bad that I forgot to include Shay, Lia, Hatlie and Raegen Broskoff in my birthday column this past week. While attending the Geneva Fire Departments Pancake Breakfast on Sunday morning I saw the four little Broskoff children opening their birthday present from Grandma Diane and Grandpa Dave. They were so excited! I felt so bad when I later realized my error.

These four children always amaze me. They are the healthiest, happiest, most pleasant children anyone could possibly know. Their personalities are different but all wonderful. A lot can be said for their parents. It may not have been easy, but they made it look natural. Doesn't everyone raise four babies at once?

These kids are exceptional. I feel such closeness when I see them on walks with their Mom and Dad, and big sister, when they are at community events, at church where they are always demonstrating such good behavior - no pouts, tears or tantrums. Just all those happy smiles.

Love shows in different ways and it definitely shows here. Maybe it is a closeness shared in the womb? Could be, because I see the same trait in the Nielsen triplets and the Knudsen triplets. 

I am so happy for these four little miracles, Shay, Lia, Hattie and Raegan on the occasion of their fourth birthday. It was fun to watch them figure out how to hold up those four little fingers, and see the smiles on their faces as I took their picture.

They couldn't be more perfect. I hope they had a great day; I sure did! 

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This week’s birthdays and anniversaries include:

• Thursday, October 2: Laurie Jensen, Taya Richards, Amanda Hullopeter, Makayla Vangen, David Lembke, Christopher Bergerson, Adrian Jensen, Andrea Zamora, Wilma Ditlevson, Dawn Hanna, Chuck & LuAnn Hanson, Amy & Alex Kromminga, Brooke & Tim Krohn, Brody & Katie Richards, Bob & Kathy Hanson

• Friday, October 3: David Bunn, Lori Neidermeier, Dawn Enzenauer, Colette Holmes, Carrie Thompson, Wendy Thostenson Bogen, Paul Wayne, Lisa Zabel, Edna Thomas

• Saturday, October 4: Susan Cornelius Wehr, Helen Jagusch Mantahei, Skyler Hanson, Clair Clausen, Michelle Lageson, Jerome Simon, Dale Waage, Jeff Waage, Lori Zabel, Matt Redmon, John & Cynthia Nelson, Krista & Randy Baana

• Sunday, October 5: Kijah Joy Mikesell, Bethany Otto, Graciela Solveig Ortiz, Larry Pence, Karen Wiersma, Julie Cornelius, Jamie Farr, Elizabeth Randall, Peggy Sorenson, Linda Harding, Karen Kasper, Ray & Bunny Jepson, Jim & Pat Lyle, Wayne & Jo Schimek, Mandi & Darren Johannsen, Doug & Deb Braaten

• Monday, October 6: Evan Matthew Beckman, Mesa Jo Grace Krause, Jackson Wyatt Lageson, Mark Plunkett, Marlin Beckman, Kaira Glienke, Melissa Horan, Aurie Brighton, Caden Reichl, Gail Turvold, Julie Born Beenken, Scott Holmes, Tait Misgen, Cindy Kasper Johnson, Jayme & Ryan Paulson

• Tuesday, October 7: Candace Lageson Baker, Carolyn Weller, Jason Huber, Todd Wayne, Debbie David, Garrett Briggs, Jill Bergdale, Kris Strenge, John & Ellen Hanson, Denise & Jerry Abbott, Jamie & Brian Riley, Pat & Barb O'Conner

• Wednesday, October 8: Mandy Moon, Lauren Olivia Sommers, Haley Hanson, Barb Hagen, Barb Dobberstein, Barb Strenge, Mary Kay Spurr, Brad Anderson, Doug Anderson, Hazel Spiering, Daniel Paulson, Kay Nelson, Julie & Brian Dahl

• Thursday, October 9: Matt Kubiatowicz, Joshua Kasper, Cheryl Paulsen Wilson, Randy Mucha, Nancy Jo Anderson, Ashley Hove, Keith Neidermeier, Dennis Blouin

• Friday, October 10: Pat Goodnature, Trevin Stollard, Aarin Gray Pirsig, his 2nd; Eric Anderson, Nicole Anderson Loken, Luverne Hamor, Haley Hanson, LeRoy Ingvaldson, Nicole Lonning, Betty DeRaad, Elena Grace Spande

• Saturday, October 11: Alisha Moody, Reed Michael Kath, Mitchell Edwards, Ebonie Mullenmaster, Earl Klinger, Mayro Leak Kubista, Melissa Otto, Jenna Swearingen, Mike Trumble, Cory McGrath, Shawna Besco, John Cyr, Alisha Moody, Lee & Jody Loverink

May all of your favorite things be within reach. Have a wonderful day!

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